A friend of mine just told me that relationships will probably never work for me because I'm a hard person to keep up with.
How? I had asked.
Maybe some people are just too slow-paced for you, whereas you, you're constantly on the move with everything in life, he said. You've already done a lot with your life at your mid-20s than most people already have their whole lives. People might probably get intimidated by that, and they know you're someone who's never content with anything in her life, so you're always going to be searching for the next best thing, while they may not be. Some people are just happy with where they're at in life, and have no plans to change any of it, because, why should they?
You're right, I said.
Honestly, I think I'll probably going to be cursed with the fact that nobody's ever going to be on the same page as me and I'm never going to be on the same page as them.
They might think that since I'm always constantly searching for the next best thing in my life or the next thing to conquer, they may think this mindset of mine is applicable to how I feel towards a person.
Could be, he shrugged. I don't know.
But, he said, what I do know is, anyone's a dumbass if they try and let go of someone like you. I guess some people just can't handle you or your life, but that's their problem. That should be the least of yours.
Thanks, friend.
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