It's okay to make mistakes because we're only human, but I dislike people who constantly make the same ones over and over again without taking responsibility for themselves. If you know you made a mistake, why do you insist on messing up again? Do you just refuse to learn from them? Is that what it is? You let the same shit happen to you constantly and you don't do a thing about it. That's just what you call being counterproductive. Mistakes are made to be productive, meaning it'll teach you to not do it again. But if you don't change that, it becomes redundant and you will stunt your growth as a human.

Learn the hell from your mistakes so you can move on to bigger mistakes.