Stop victimizing yourself. Stop trying to play the victim in any situation. Nobody's going to like you, tolerate you, or sympathize you anymore just because you're sad. Nobody's going to date you because you're sad. Nobody owes you anything because you're down in the dumps wallowing in your own sorrow. They aren't going to cure you from your depression. Get up, take a bath, and do your hair. Stand up straight.

There you go.