If there's one thing I'd never do, (and I made this promise my freshman year of college) is to ever slut shame or hate a girl for being a so-called "slut." What someone does in their own private time or between the sheets is their own business, not mine. I'm not going to hate on some girl just because she regularly gets ass. As long as she's cool with me, I'm not going to give a shit what she does. As long as it isn't bothering me, I'm not going to give a shit what she does. I don't care how many guys you've had sex with, as long as you aren't trying to fuck a guy that I have my eye on.
Slut shamers always believe that they're on a pedestal. They claim a girl doesn't have enough respect for herself if she's constantly have sex with different men. Honestly speaking, maybe the bitch just likes sex...and there's nothing wrong with that! If she's sure of herself and is sure of her body, and old enough to make her own decisions, why should you be in the way of shaming her? They claim that it takes away female empowerment and femininity; if anything, I think you're exercising feminism because you're doing what YOU want to do, not because you were assumedly "sexually abused" or had a dark past. That brings me to my next point...why does sexual abuse have to be a justification for someone wanting to have sex? Oh, so you HAVE to have been abused as a child in order to want to have sex? That's some fucking bullshit right there. Why should there be a justification for doing anything at all, or some "sole reason"? Maybe there isn't a sole reason behind it that you're hopefully trying to rescue...maybe they just simply like sex! Who gives a shit? Does it personally attack you or bother you?
Also, why is sexual abuse/so-called "daddy issues" a reflection upon the woman? Wouldn't it make more sense to question why any parent abandoned them rather than the woman being attacked for having "daddy issues"?
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