We don't really know our capacity to love. We're only geared and trained to think that we have to feel some type of way to get married to one person and one person only, then be able to find happiness forever. It's because we ourselves don't understand how to do it or how it works and yet we latch onto whatever societal mentality feeds us on what's normal, which is monogamy. I feel like the humanistic viewpoint on marriage is just way too single dimensional.
But who says that's inherently the only way we can see things? Affairs and infidelity happen all the time. It's because our brains can't wrap around what it feels like to love one person and one person only at a time forever.
We get weary of them. We get bored. That's what happens. You get bored of the relationship.
You start to wander.
You can love in several different ways.
Love is seen as only one dimensional these days.
It has all sorts of rules. I don't believe int hem.
So what do you do if you meet someone that would be a potential partner and you don't believe in love?
Know what I say?
I'm sorry.
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