Maybe you shouldn’t be so quick to get into a relationship with someone when you still have unresolved feelings or skeletons in the closet. First of all, it’s not fair to your new boyfriend/girlfriend that you’re not even able to give all of yourself to them simply because you still have feelings for another person that they don’t know about. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you have reserved feelings for other people. If you still do you obviously aren’t ready to be in one. Being in a relationship means being selfless, passionate, but most of all, HONEST. You’re with someone because you like them and them only. When you’re in love with the person you’re with, nobody else should matter…NOBODY. You give 100% of yourself to them. It’s called A RELATIONSHIP for a fucking reason. You chose each other for a reason. It’s not fair that they don’t know you’re still in love with someone else. Oh so it’s okay that they’re giving all of themselves to you but you’re only going to meet 50% of the emotional requirements? Is that what relationships are to you? Substitutions? What the shit? How is that fair to them? How would you think they feel when they love you so much for who you are to the point where they’re willing to make sacrifices to be in a relationship with you, while you’re still pining away for someone other than your new boyfriend/girlfriend behind their fucking backs? How do you think they feel being a fucking backup slut? “Oh hey I still have feelings for someone else and I still think about them every day but I’m just going to get with you for the present time so I can 

a. be able to have regular sex because having sex with my right hand is getting kind of boring.

b. I hope you know I’m just waiting for the other person and I to get back together someday but you’re just a substitute for now.

c. just settle for less because I can’t get what I want…yet. But my time will come.”

BullfuckingSHIT. To all those who do this type of unfathomable fucked up shit, I hope you know what heartless people you are. None of you deserve to be in a relationship, and your current significant others don’t deserve to be played with like this. They deserve to have someone who loves them wholly and them only. What you’re doing is absolutely completely abominable and you all deserve to feel ashamed. I wasn’t made aware that relationships are now a game where you can make up your own rules as you go. Is that what the fuck those things are now? If that’s the case, fuck it, I’ll be glad to fly solo for the rest of my life. Being forever alone at least means that I won’t have to worry about betraying my own trust.

And most of all, who the fuck do you think you are? 

I have too many fucking friends at home who do this shit constantly with every new relationship they get, and it’s time I fucking said something. UGH. I love my friends to death but they’re always playing the shit out of people and are in relationships just so they won’t be alone. I got my 4th phone call in the past week from one of my friends from home telling me how they’re now in their 6th relationship with someone (within the past fucking year and a half) but still talk to their ex every day because “I’m still in love with them.” BOO FREAKING HOO. YOU’RE OBVIOUSLY NOT TRYING HARD ENOUGH TO GET OVER THEM. 

You’re only ready to be in a relationship when you’re completely ready to let go of past loves. You’re obviously still not emotionally available if you still have unresolved feelings. You don’t deserve to be in a relationship if you don’t know how to be in one. Remember that. Oh and don’t worry, one day, karma will come bite you in the fucking ass. And I will be there to laugh at your misfortune.